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Hi, Jan here

If you're looking for advice, guidance, or inspiration on being single, you're in the right place! Here, I share what worked for me and the things I found helpful when I was first single and looking to meet new people and, create a life that fulfilled me. It's a bit like being on that aeroplane, when they say put your own mask on first. If your cup is empty, you have nothing to pour from! 

I split with my husband in November 2020, right at the beginning of lock down two, boy was that a difficult time. To be honest it was the first time I had lived alone at the age of 55! I spent three years single, with dates and disappointments scattered throughout. I set up a business called Singles Social's in February 2023 to help others get out and meet others in the real world. I then qualified and became a Personal Matchmaker, so I know a thing or two about being single and dating! 

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Due to falling attendance numbers at events, the Singles Social events are no longer organised by me. But the website which has my blog and helpful advice is still very much alive. You will find that here. www.yournextchapter.org.uk

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But before you dip your toes into the murky waters of dating here is the most important piece of advice I can offer: don’t date until you’re ready. Fill your own life first, be awesome as a single person, and dating will become far less stressful & even fun! On the website, you'll find advice I truly hope will be useful, including links to other resources, and lots more on how to rebuild your life and just be happy single.

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Nervous to go out into the world solo? Check out my article on this very topic  & my confidence course here.

 

For dating advice check out the website www.yournextchapter.org.uk

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And don’t forget to visit my YouTube channel for being awesome single & insights on dating pitfalls and how to become a dating pro! See links below!

Warm, Regards Jan 

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My YouTube Channel & Podcast

I have been having some amazing conversations over the last few years and many times I thought to myself, I wish I could capture this and share it. So I did. the podcasts come out every two weeks on a Thursday, on YouTube, Spotify and Apple.  I am talking to all sorts of people about, confidence, being single later in life and dating again. 

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Find the Podcast on Spotify

Or on Apple 

My Blog 

Here you will find my 'dating after' blog, all things dating!  I cover subjects like Ghosting, the diffrence between Dating Apps and Personal Matchmaking, as well as that age old question - Why do I always choose the the wrong guy! And if your looking for 50 great opening lines on a dating App, you will find them here too! 

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